[how2j]How to Break Up Peacefully

welcome and greetings!
i'm glad you're here today.
i have some useful advice to share.

i'm going to talk about breaking up.
i plan to offer some suggestions.
we should always try to end a relationship on good terms.

it requires skill and maturity.
it takes a warm personality and a kind heart.
here are some tips to help you out.

first,select a good place.
break up in the right enviroment.
break up somewhere without distractions.

arrange to be alone.
arrange to go some place quiet and peaceful.
make sure it's "one-on-one."

write out your feelings beforehand.
try to communicate from your heart.
try to break the news as gently as you can.

second,communicate with care.
communicate straight from the heart.
try to break up with grace and dignity.

be sensitive and understanding.
be courteous and polite.
put yourself in the other person's shoes.

explain clearly how you feel.
explain what's on your mind.
be patient;don't rush or be rude.

third,try to control your emotions.
remain calm and serious.
remain rational and level-headed.

be as honest as possible.
you both deserve the truth.
you don't want to deceive or mislead.

don't lose your composure.
don't lose control or fall apart.
force yourself to be emotionally strong.

finally,don't let the breakup turn ugly.
focus on the positives.
focus on the positives.
focus on the good memories and the good times you've shared.

try to remain friends.
promise to keep in touch.
promise to respect each other forever.

don't let it end painfully.
don't let the hurt continue.
refuse to quarrel or dislike each other.

in conclusion,you can decide how it ends.
you can set the tone.
decide to separate as friends.

be persistent.
accept some of the blame.
accept some responsibility for the split.

just go on as friends.
you two might change in the future.
you might even end up together again.